What Do You Think?– Can’t We All Just Get Along

What do You Think

It’s time again for everyone’s favorite segment: “What do you think?”

So hit the JUMP below to find out what today’s question is.

It’s time again for everyone’s favorite segment: “What do you think?”

Before I go into what today’s ‘What do you think?’ question is, I want you to watch the above clip.

Ok.  Are you done watching it?  Yes?  Good.  Now continue reading to find out what today’s question is.

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Is Common Law becoming More Common Than it Should be?

It’s 2013, you’d think the craze of “Baby Mamas” and “Baby Daddies,” would’ve died down, but as Maury proves, it’s just getting worse.

I swear, I feel like every year, it gets worse and worse and worse; and every year, you have more and more men and women that are actually proud to be Baby Mamas and Daddies, and it’s just sickening.

Whatever happened to the good ole days, you know, back when you didn’t have to tell a man to “Put a Ring on it,” instead, he would actually “Put a ring on it.” Yes, back when the old saying, “First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby carriage,” was actually true?

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Bitter vs. Better

Bitter vs  Better

Is there a difference between bitter and better?  I found myself asking this very same question

A while back, I was explaining to a gentleman why I was not in any position to start a relationship. I explained the reason was basically because I realized I have issues, and some of my issues actually caused my past breakups.  I stressed before I get into anymore relationships, I refuse to date and/or except the same BS, I used to accept, and I needed to fix my issues.

Now after, I finished talking, this gentleman had the ball to tell me I was bitter, and I found that hilarious.  How am I bitter?  Am I bitter because I refuse to date a man whose idea of a date is to “come over and chill,” am I bitter because I actually would rather spend time with myself, rather than be up underneath some man?  Well, the answer is no.  No, I’m not bitter, I am better.

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Your Man is Friends with His Ex, so Now What

Picture Courtesy of Bossip

Picture Courtesy of Bossip

You have just met the most incredible man of your life.  He’s smart, handsome, and funny. He has a great sense of humor, loves his mom, and opens up the doors for you. He pays for everything, and all that jazz. The star in his crown, he’s even respectful to women.  As a matter of fact, he’s so respectful to women that he’s even able to stay best friends with his ex.  If you are like most females on this Earth, this is where loving of his respect for women ends.

Now, while most of us women, actually kind of respect the “idea,” that a man is still friends with his ex, I don’t know many women that can handle it.  Think about it. Just think about the things your man does with all  his friends  Just thinking about it can cause a lot of problems, and a lot of self-doubt, which can be the lethal injection to ANY RELATIONSHIP, no matter how good or solid it may be.

So below are 5 tips to help you better handle your man deciding to be best friends with his ex.

Tip #1: Stay Calm – Look, since she’s his ex-girlfriend, she was there before you, and nine times out of ten, she will be there after you, so there’s no reason to get all crazy.  I’m also guessing, you knew that he was friends with her before you two got together and in the beginning you were cool with it but now that it’s been 6 months or so, you’re starting to get tired of it.  Well I have news for you chic, suck it up.  Unless he’s breaking plans with you left and right to be with her, and putting her before your relationship, there is no reason for you to go all ham on him because he hangs out with her every once in a while, or because his mother is still cool with her.

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