The guy who writes one of my favorite blogs, Black Girls are Easy, recently said, in his blog post, ‘Mr. Emotionally Unavailable:’
“Stop being afraid to be a bitch, these niggas be acting up because yall girls be letting them. Don’t submit to his bullshit, take control and show him that you’re not like these other girls he’s used. Don’t accept that he is the way he is; show him that you’re worth taking a chance on. If you’re not worth dropping his wall for, then he’s not worth dropping your panties for.”
And that got me thinking, why is it when women have morals (i.e. not wanting to sleep with a man on the first date, or wanting a man with a job and that actually makes money and is willing to spend it on you and take care of you) they are considered bitches or gold diggers, but yet men are willing to blatantly ask for what they want and it’s ok.
What do you think of this? Are you a bitch or a gold digger? Do you think it’s bad to be either one? Leave your comments in the comment section.
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