To Be or Not To Be: A Down Ass Bitch

Picture courtesy of thetonygrands.com

Picture courtesy of thetonygrands.com

One of my favorite sites that I religiously read, and I sometimes even reference her posts here, is Peep Game, and it’s written by a woman named Butta Jones (I’m not sure if that’s her real name, and it’s irrelevant anyways).  Well, while reading her blog the other day; I say this quote under the title “When A Man Does Something BOGUS…It’s Just That…BOGUS!!! Why Are You So Sympathetic And Understanding Of Nonsense?”

Via PeepGame:

From The Love Project

Just because you sympathize with a person’s *man’s reasoning for doing something uncool or believe they’re *he’s sincerely apologetic – does NOT change the fact that it’s not cool.  So many times it happens: giving passes to people *men who step over boundaries or misuse your kindness.  And because their explanation or apology seems reasonable, the action is forgotten.  Pay attention to the truth, because the actions (a man shows you) come from a real place.

I’m sure everyone remembers the saying, “When someone shows you who they are, believe them,” but not very many women apply this to men, and I think it’s because of a women’s natural ability to want to look at the best in men.  I also think it’s some sort of primitive survival thing that we women unfortunately have carried over into the 21s century.  Think about it, back in cavemen days, cavewomen would end up with the most brutal man of the clan either by choice or by being stolen away, and the cavewomen more often times than not would stay (I’m guessing they probably didn’t know how to exactly survive on their own yet, although I’m sure there were some cavewomen only clans who only kept men for breeding or whatever) either way, I’m guessing the majority of them stayed because they developed the ability to see that even though the caveman is an ass who stole her from her family or probably won or bought her, he is providing for her, and in those times that was enough, however, ladies, we are no longer in the cavemen days.  It is ok to leave a man who is an utter prick.  You don’t have to forgive his BS excuses (because we already know, that’s exactly what they are, BS), you don’t have to forgive his not calling, his not listening or respecting you, or any of the other BS things we women accept.  Like Butta said, “When A Man Does Something BOGUS…It’s Just That…BOGUS!!! Why Are You So Sympathetic And Understanding Of Nonsense?” It’s ok to not be the down ass bitch.  Some of these men are not down ass niggas, so therefore they don’t deserve a down ass bitch.

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