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I have no patience. Well actually I have some patience, but for the most part, ignorant and stupid people annoy me, and I mean the blatant ignorance. Like the asshole at the grocery store who decides to get in the 20 items or less lane with 50 items and then proceeds to argue with the cashier when they won’t cash them out, thus holding up the entire line. That kind of blatant ignorance and self-entitlement annoys me. But this article has a good point, letting go of impatience can be quite healthy. I’m going to have to try it.
I find it interesting that black women are considered to be the angriest of races around. Most black women are not angry. We are just very strong, independent, unyielding, resilient, and loyal. Most of the time a black woman gets unfairly labeled with the “angry black women” stereotype, Usually the women had a right to be mad (let’s face it, having your man cheat on you, or your bosses taking advantage of you, kids that want to be assholes, backstabbing girlfriends, etc. can really grate on your nerves after a while), and that there reader is my point. Out of all the races, the black woman has it hard as hell. We get stereotyped no matter what. It doesn’t matter if we had a good reason to be angry, or hell it doesn’t even matter if you rarely ever get angry. Just get mad one time, and see how quickly you will get the looks and the label of the “Angry Black Women.” It’s very sad, black women can’t even speak passionately about something without being called angry (think Michelle Obama’s passionate speech awhile back).
The Twitter beef that was going on between Royce and her boyfriend’s baby mama, got me to thinking about the choice of whether to become a baby mama or not. Reading the information regarding what went down between Royce and her boyfriend’s baby mama made me think about something I’ve always felt. I refuse to be a baby mama. I always use protection and will continue to use protection, until I am a married woman.
It seems like the trend these days is Reality TV. And the biggest trend that Reality TV created is women fighting on TV. It seems though that a lot of people believe that its only black women fighting on TV and a lot of people have issues with it. First off, that’s not true, there are white women that fight on TV, but there fights are kind of boring, I’ve tried watching the other Real Housewives and the only ones besides Atlanta that I like is New Jersey, those chicks are awesome. I have to say, I’m quite excited for the new season of Real Housewives of New Jersey.
When I moved to Florida, I decided to re-create myself. But the trick to it, was that I wasn’t necessarily recreating myself, it was more like I decided that I was going to be the strong woman I wanted to be. Instead of being walked all over, or not having a better relationship with God, or not trusting in myself, I decided to become the women I always wanted to be.
I was talking to this guy the other day, and the issue of sex came up, and I explained that while I don’t have any type of rules regarding sex (i.e. meaning I don’t have a 90 day rule or whatever), I don’t have sex with someone until I know them. He then proceeded to ask me what I meant by that, and I let him know that what I meant was that, until I know someone, their likes, dislikes, their first, last and middle name, things about their family, things about their past, information regarding their past relationships, etc. and until I felt comfortable with a person, my Kit Kat, was on lock down.
There has been an issue that has been plaguing me for a while. It’s the issue of cheating, more in particular, why women blame the other woman. I don’t get it. Look ladies, even if the woman knows that he’s “your man,” it’s not her fault, mainly because, he’s “YOUR MAN,” it’s his responsibility to keep his “little man” in his pants, no matter how hard the woman is throwing her Kit Kat at him. Think about it, he’s your man, key word there is “your” and I’m pretty sure he knows that he’s your man, so there’s no reason why he should give in to any other chick that isn’t you. Women need to stop blaming the other woman and start blaming the man and/or themselves. And yes, I did say themselves. Women please be honest with yourself, sometimes we can drive a man to cheat.
Reading the news and blogs, I’ve come across an interesting debate. A debate that’s been going on for years. It’s the debate of black people vs. black people. It comes in many forms, be it light vs. dark skin, good hair vs. bad hair, natural vs. weave, ghetto vs. non ghetto, and the list will go on and on and on. The one common denominator is that it’s black people vs. black people. It’s known that black people are the most racist race around, and in fact it’s sometimes perceived as a joke. And frankly that hurts and makes me angry the most. The fact that black people are so racist against each other and the fact they think it’s funny. Now not all black people do, there’s actually a lot of us out there that don’t think it’s funny and think it’s dumb, but unfortunately our voices aren’t heard.