That apparently is still the question in 2013. I remember last year the motto amongst a lot of women was, “These Hoes Stay Winning.” As we round out 2013, I’m finding that now we are having the side chick debate. You know, the one asking which is basically is it better, to be a side chick and/or is the side chick to be blamed? Personally, I have to say the man is the one to blame. Before I get into why at the end of the day, it’s the man’s fault, let’s take a look at the side chick debate from both sides.