That apparently is still the question in 2013. I remember last year the motto amongst a lot of women was, “These Hoes Stay Winning.” As we round out 2013, I’m finding that now we are having the side chick debate. You know, the one asking which is basically is it better, to be a side chick and/or is the side chick to be blamed? Personally, I have to say the man is the one to blame. Before I get into why at the end of the day, it’s the man’s fault, let’s take a look at the side chick debate from both sides.
There has been an issue that has been plaguing me for a while. It’s the issue of cheating, more in particular, why women blame the other woman. I don’t get it. Look ladies, even if the woman knows that he’s “your man,” it’s not her fault, mainly because, he’s “YOUR MAN,” it’s his responsibility to keep his “little man” in his pants, no matter how hard the woman is throwing her Kit Kat at him. Think about it, he’s your man, key word there is “your” and I’m pretty sure he knows that he’s your man, so there’s no reason why he should give in to any other chick that isn’t you. Women need to stop blaming the other woman and start blaming the man and/or themselves. And yes, I did say themselves. Women please be honest with yourself, sometimes we can drive a man to cheat.